It's so easy for life with your spouse to become stagnant. We get into routines that are essential to our lives, but then those routines turn into ruts, and before you know it, you feel like roommates rather than lovers. It only seems to make sense that as your responsibilities mount one on top of the other, you seem to be mounting less. (dirty pun...you'll have to excuse me!) So what are we supposed to do about this? Well, I've always heard that admitting there is a problem is the first step to fixing it, so congrats! You are already on your way to making a conscious effort to improve your relationship.
Why is heating up the bedroom so important for your marriage health? Here's my list of personal pros.
- Better Health - The release of endorphins after orgasm helps your health in a number of ways. Endorphins are an analgesic (read: pain relief). This means your headache is no longer an excuse not to do it. It's all the more reason you should be getting busy with your honey! Endorphins are also partially responsible for helping your body cope with stress and regulating your moods.
- Greater Intimacy - While many people think of sex as a purely physical act, this couldn't be further from the truth. I know that I personally long for intimacy with my husband. One sure fire way to get a man tuned into you is in the bedroom. Putting your sexual relationship at the top of the priority list, opens you both up emotionally and mentally, and the physical connection fosters closeness that can't be achieved any other way.
- Opposites Attract - My husband and I are definatley Venus and Mars. We are polar opposites, but one thing we both have in common - we enjoy sex. Well, how about that. I bet even the most contradictory pairs can find common ground in their bedroom.
- Had Any Fun Lately - Life can be so hum-drum, and with work, children, and housework there seems to be little time to include personal enjoyment. Having a playful romp with your spouse after the kids are asleep is the perfect way to incorporate some fun into your lives!
- If It Feels Good, Do it - Now, this is not true for everything, obviously, but when you are married and talking about connecting with your spouse, it is all green lights!
- It's Only A Problem If You're NOT Doing It - People make a big deal about the frequency of sex. But, have you ever noticed that the ones who are complaining always wish it was happening more often? I don't think I've ever heard someone say, "Oh man, if we have sex one more time I'm going to puke. I'm so over-sexed." Ummmmm, nope. It just does not happen!
So, what does all of this have to do with my giveaway? Well... hide the kiddies... I'm giving away a Reconnect With Your Spouse package from
Eden Fantasys. I personally compiled all of these fun products to help spice things up in the bedroom, give you a new take on your sexual relationship, and boldly go where you and your hubby have never gone before! So let's see what
adult toys we can give you to play with!
First, why don't you kick things off with a game. Be playful, be coy, be sexy. The
101 Night Of Grrreat Sex board game gives you and your spouse a fun way to get it in gear in the bedroom. You'll be anything but bored!
Next is
Kama Sutra Massage Oil. Get into being kinky by working out eachothers kinks. Touch will get you connected and stimulated, and the scent of sweet almond is light and inviting. This non-greasy formula glides easily to reduce friction.
Now, you can't have a sexually charged giveaway without a
sex toy, can you? I think not. The
Nea (sorry, no picture. You're going to have to visit the website for this one!) is designed with a woman in mind, but is perfect for using as a couple. Use it to enhance your pleasure together, or put him to work making you top priority!
When all is said and done, who wants to waste time cleaning up? The
Pjur® Med Clean Wipes keep dirty business where it should be. Whether you're cleaning yourself or your toys, it doesn't get any easier than this.
I can tell you from personal experience that there are few things more embarrassing than your child mistaking
adult toys for one of their own. So, keep all your couple goodies under lock and key with the
Devine toy box with pink hearts. It's girlie, and totally inconspicuous. No one will ever guess what's inside!
So with the help of
Eden Fantasys and Grab Bag, you're sure to rekindle that fire in no time! And the best part? It doesn't stop here! This is the big kickoff to Grab Bag Reviews and
Eden Fantasys Toy of the Month!! Every month I will give you guys a chance to win a fun new toy. So keep your eyes peeled!
How To Enter: Go to Eden Fantasys' website and tell me what fun item you would choose. INCLUDE YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS.
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